We all hope for a happy coming year. But we can be certain that along with the good things, not-so-good things will also happen. In my own struggles I’ve written about since Kim’s passing, the Lord prompted me with this: “It’s in the fire that you’re forged.” We all know he will grow us as we work through hardships. Yet for this to happen, I’ve learned the importance of our perspective, our focus. When I miss Kim too much, and everything in life seems to go dark, I’ve learned that I need to get back to a Kingdom of God…